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	<title>Single Mom, Outside with Toddlers</title>
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		<title>Rainy Days</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here in Central NC, we have finally gotten some much needed rain.  Yay, my little plants are rejoicing&#8230;and so are my kids.  Normally, rain would mean a day cooped up in the house, watching cartoons.  But, our new outlook on life says we are out and about no matter the weather.  So, I have been [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here in Central NC, we have finally gotten some much needed rain.  Yay, my little plants are rejoicing&#8230;and so are my kids.  Normally, rain would mean a day cooped up in the house, watching cartoons.  But, our new outlook on life says we are out and about no matter the weather.  So, I have been trying to think of some good rainy day activities.</p>
<p>Puddle jumping, frog chasing (those little beauties really like the out of doors), rain dancing (just twirl in the cold shower and stomp a few puddles).  We also need some special gear to keep us healthy, so i bought my daughter a nice umbrella, and rain boots so she will be reasonable dry during out adventures. </p>
<p>I think, that the local parks would be pretty clear in the rain, so maybe one day we will go for a hike and have the trail to ourselves.
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		<title>Camping Information</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jan 2008 17:26:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is one goal that most parents wishing to get back to nature are trying to obtain.  And that is&#8230;.The Family Camping Trip.  It&#8217;s like a visit to mecca for nature lovers, often dreamed of, planned, and interupted.  It seems like the whole world is heading out in their cars with back packs and camp [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is one goal that most parents wishing to get back to nature are trying to obtain.  And that is&#8230;.The Family Camping Trip.  It&#8217;s like a visit to mecca for nature lovers, often dreamed of, planned, and interupted.  It seems like the whole world is heading out in their cars with back packs and camp stoves for some wonderful adventure, while we are stuck at home watching the latest Dora the Explorer episode&#8230;.Irony alert&#8230;.I want to be the Explorer.</p>
<p>Camping with Toddlers is not something that most people will try, but I know I have to.  So, I have been scouring the internet, reading all the books I can get my hands on, trying to find the key that will unlock the mysterious secret to successful camping with toddlers.  There is no key&#8230;sigh.  Instead, there are the same tips repeated over and over.  I haven&#8217;t had the pleasure of camping with my kids by myself yet, but when I do, I promise frequent, detailed posts so that you can learn from my mistakes (trust me, I expect quite a few).</p>
<p>Until then, though, here is the compilation of those tips I have already found, to save you the time and expense (check out book prices&#8230;.ouch).</p>
<p>Bring  Play Pen or Pack n Play.  These things seem to be the holy grail of successful camping with Toddlers.  They act as a crib at night, a restraining device when you are working around camp a toy room when little ones need to be entertained, and storage area or toy box when you are otherwise engaged.  All in all, I don&#8217;t think this is a terrible idea, but I don&#8217;t think it would be the end all be all that some people think it is.  I worry that too many people are using this to contain their smaller children so that they (the parent) can enjoy an easier weekend&#8230;which is fine, so long as the children are being played with and allowed access to the world around them.  After all, that&#8217;s why we are out in the woods, right?</p>
<p>Spray Bottles, this one has been deduced by me from the stories I have read.  It seems to me that a simple spray bottle would be a nice thing to have with little ones.  Filled with water it can be an air conditioning accessorie when sprayed on little faces, or a toy to play with siblings or other children or indulgent adults, a tool for cleaning both the picnic table and dirty hands, or even an effective way to get water in to busy mouths.  I can&#8217;t remember anyone else suggesting this, but I am going to be trying it, and seeing how it works, I think it will be a success.</p>
<p>Flashlights, it almost goes with out saying that this is a big one.  They are toys, they are night lights, they are the only source of vision you might have to get to the bathroom after sundown&#8230;don&#8217;t forget to bring one for everyone.  Personally, my kids got little Elmo and Cookie Monster flashlights for Christmas, just for this reason.  They are the kind where you push a button and the mouth opens and turns on the light, the handle makes carrying easy even for little ones and points the light to the front, where it is needed.  And, it only cost about $3.00 each, well worth the safety and fun they bring.</p>
<p>Bug Spray, don&#8217;t forget it, most of us adults are able to deal with the aggrivation if we forget this important item, but it could be the difference between happy campers and whiney little ones if you forget.  Trust me, I know this from experience, visiting my dad at his beach home in the off season, I thought we wouldn&#8217;t need bug spray.  Here&#8217;s a tip, bug exist in Summer AND Fall, and Winter and Spring for that matter too.  Also, sand fly&#8217;s are a real pain&#8230;litterally&#8230;.so don&#8217;t forget the bug spray.</p>
<p>Snacks, lots of them, just because you are going to be busy hiking, actually, because you are going to be busy hiking, your kids are going to get hungry.  And, you won&#8217;t have a whole cupboard of food stuff to choose from, nope, you have to PACK SNACKS.</p>
<p>Toys and Books, you want kids to enjoy the great outdoors, but you don&#8217;t want them to get bored after the first day, whine and never want to go back.  Better to make the introduction gradual and let them bring along a few toys.  I would hope that parents would pack less electronic toys and more imaginative toys.  If you are going to be near a lake or pond, why not bring a wooden sail boat.  If you don&#8217;t have  a wooden sail boat or still body of water, why not put a nut shell boat in that little creek beside camp and watch it wash away.</p>
<p>Compass, older children will love to watch the spinning arrow and finding (and telling you incessantly) which direction you are heading in.</p>
<p>Potty Seats, this one is pretty self explanitory.  But, for those of you who can&#8217;t imagine really camping, the call of nature happens everywhere, even in nature.  And most toddlers won&#8217;t be able to hold it until you can get to a bath house or the required distance from camp (for those brave wilderness campers).  One little poty seat can really save the day, several changes of clothes, and many parents&#8217; sanity. </p>
<p>Sun Protection, now, I am not an avid campaigner for sun screen, for my own reasons.  But, when you are outside ALL DAY, as when camping, some form of sun protection is just smart.  Personally, I like hats, but many kids&#8217; won&#8217;t wear them.  If that is the case it is better to slather the old sun screeon on rather than risk having even one sun burnt, miserable, whiney child for the rest of the trip.</p>
<p>And that&#8217;s all for now folks&#8230;.do you see why many people don&#8217;t dare to camp with toddlers.  There just isn&#8217;t enough information to prepare.  But, hopefully I will be able to help at least a few people get out there and see what they can see, with out having to worry what is waiting around the corner.
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		<title>NC Natural Sciences Museum</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jan 2008 01:12:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I went on to Green Hour&#8217;s &#8216;Nature Finder&#8217; I found, not nature, but the reasonable facimile of it contained with in our local Natural Sciences Museum.  Perfect, it is much too cold today to venture blindly out in to the great out doors, and hopefully we will learn a little more about the new [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I went on to Green Hour&#8217;s &#8216;Nature Finder&#8217; I found, not nature, but the reasonable facimile of it contained with in our local Natural Sciences Museum.  Perfect, it is much too cold today to venture blindly out in to the great out doors, and hopefully we will learn a little more about the new environments we will be visiting.</p>
<p>It was wonderful, there were so many things there that I hadn&#8217;t even considered.  There was one floor dedicated to arthropods, and my daughter was fascinated, I almost couldn&#8217;t get her to leave.  Luckily, there was an observatory to the next floor that showed a Dinosaur exhibit and that allowed us a smooth transition to the next level.  I think, however, that the second floor with it&#8217;s recreation of different environments and indoor water fall was my favorite.  I started to just itch to see it all in real life, not the fake forest in the museum, but a real hawk and a real waterfall, and a real stone to identify.</p>
<p>So, I have come up with a list of things to do with the kids out side.</p>
<p>Camping, obviously this is one we are hoping to do alot.</p>
<p>Bird Watching.</p>
<p>Hiking</p>
<p>Canoeing/Boating</p>
<p>Splunking (roaming in caves)</p>
<p>Rock Hounding</p>
<p>Constellation Gazing</p>
<p>Ok, it&#8217;s not the best list, but it&#8217;s a start, there has to be at least a few months worth of activities there for us to try&#8230;..so, on the next warm weekend I think the little ones and I will roll on out to the local park and go for a hike.  I am even trying to figure out a way that my daughter can keep a nature journal, maybe she could draw her entries, since she can&#8217;t write.
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		<title>Hello World!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jan 2008 20:10:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is a new term I discovered recently, Nature Defecit Disorder, which is used to describe the current state of most of our children&#8217;s lives.  Devoid of natural wonder, curiosity, and adventure, I think our children are suffering for it, and the experts agree.  Research has concluded that a child who spends more time out [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is a new term I discovered recently, Nature Defecit Disorder, which is used to describe the current state of most of our children&#8217;s lives.  Devoid of natural wonder, curiosity, and adventure, I think our children are suffering for it, and the experts agree.  Research has concluded that a child who spends more time out doors is healthier, physically and mentally, and more likely to succeed in life.</p>
<p>My own children, despite my reverance for nature, are so saddled with technology, I am worried for their health.  My dear daughter is only three, but she spends most of her time vegetating in front of Noggin, or Nick Jr. or even PBS Kids.  I don&#8217;t doubt the educational values these broadcasters offer in their programing, but the irony of my daughter being so thrilled with the Backyardigans, a show whose entire premise is that a group of children play in thier own back yards with nothing more than their imagination and few props, while my own little darling barely ventures in to her own back yard, is more than frustrating to me. </p>
<p>So, I have come to a conclusion, made a resolution, if you will, that we are going to get away from the TV, the computer games, the electronic toys, the whole shebang of trappings of modern living.  We are going to get outside, breathe fresh air, see birds in the sky and bugs at our feet, maybe catch a pollywog (first, find out what a pollywog is) or a firefly, and generally reconnect with the world out side of our four walls.</p>
<p>I hope to post regularly, and I hope that our journey will inspire you to go out and see what that big wide world has to offer you and your family.  Trust me, if I can do it (fingers crossed that I even can&#8230;lol) you can do it too, maybe we will see you out there some where.
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